#FestiveFrog2021

December 31

Prompt: December 31

Today is our last day together, my friend,

I can hardly believe we’ve come to the end!

It’s been such an honor to stay with you here

And when I think of you, I will grin ear-to-ear.

 Have a grand year, and don’t you lose sight

Of all we have worked on together, alright?

Think often of others and how they might feel,

Give compliments often, and always with zeal.

Stand up for people less lucky than you

And try hard to see life from their point-of-view.

You’re such a kind person and I’ll miss you so much,

Although I am leaving, let’s keep in touch.

You can download the prompts from December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

Materials

None

Activity

Goodbyes are important, and it’s also important to show gratitude. Your frog (as a proxy for you) has worked hard to create something magical this month. Your child has worked hard, too, learning and growing, over the last 30 days. It’s a good idea to honor that work with a goodbye and a thank you. Since we are moving into a new year, and your child has selected a new cause through which to continue their empathetic development, this goodbye should feel like gratifying closure.

December 29

Prompt: December 29

When it comes to empathy, kindness, good deeds

You have all the knowledge that anyone needs.

The list that you made yesterday of kind stuff

Will help so many people when life feels too tough.

Today you should pick out one action you wrote

And put it to action. Take a vote

With your folks on the best one for today

And then go ahead and get on your way.

You can download the prompts from December 29-31 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

Materials

Your list of brainstormed kindnesses from yesterday.

Activity

With your child, decide which one of the empathetic ideas you brainstormed yesterday to do first! If possible, do it today, and if not, make a concrete plan for how and when you will do it.

December 26

Prompt: December 26

Let’s play a game where we collaborate.

If we form a team we can draw something great.

Break into teams of three. You each have a role.

Drawer: Attempts to recreate a pre-drawn design they cannot see. They take directions from the talker. They stand with their back to the talker and viewer and may not talk.

Talker: Describes the design to the drawer, without seeing the design. They may question the viewer, but they may not use hand gestures.

Viewer: Sees the design but is not allowed to talk. They must communicate nonverbally to the talker. However, they cannot draw the design in the air or show the design with their gestures.  

Download the prompts for December 25-28 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

Materials

Paper, drawing implements (pencils are probably best, so you can erase as you go!), and some pre-made designs. You could draw these yourselves, but I’ll probably find and print designs from the web, like these:

A line drawing of a standing polar bear with a baby on its back.

A line drawing of a standing polar bear with a baby on its back.

You can download a printable PDF with a few images here.

Activity

The prompt really says it all. By working in teams, you’ll practice listening to each other, conveying information in a relatable way, and solving problems together, all of which build empathy. I’m sure our drawings will be a disaster, but I can’t wait to see how they turn out! This activity is inspired by The Mosaic Project, and their focus on building communities where “It’s not you and me against each other, but the two of us against the problem.” You can read more in their Action Guide for Families here.

December 25

Prompt: December 25

Today is a day when it’s good to give thanks. 

What has been the best part of today?

What are you grateful for?

Whom are you grateful for?

Download the prompts for December 25-28 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

Materials

Just yourself and your kid(s).

Activity

This is a nice opportunity to pause from the rampant consumerism of Christmas and invite your kid to express gratitude. We know that when we consciously consider and articulate the things that make us thankful and joyful, we experience them more fully. Casually chat through the joys of the holiday season and life in general. It can be a great balm for anxiety or exhaustion.

December 24

Prompt: December 24

When my grandmother wanted to show me she cared

She fixed me a plate of my favorite food.

For me, those treats that she kindly prepared

Always put me in a wonderful mood.

 

Tonight, let’s fix a plate for somebody kind.

Let’s go to the kitchen and see what we find!

Download the prompts for December 21-24 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document. If you want to get a jump on the next set of prompts, you can download the prompts for December 25-28 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

A cream colored card with the December 24 prompt with a green border and a red wax seal. It’s nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

A cream colored card with the December 23 prompt with a green border and a red wax seal. It’s nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Snacks or ingredients of your choice and a willing participant.

Activity

The goal of this activity is to have your kid (or kids) create a plate for someone other than themselves. In our house, this will be baking cookies and setting them out for Santa, but it could just as easily be fixing a nice snack for a sibling, parent, or other person.

December 23

Prompt: December 23

Let’s read a favorite book together. Then, let’s put on a play. Can we become the characters from the book?

Which part of this story made you smile the most? Why?

Was there a problem in this story that the characters needed to solve? How did they do so? Would you have done the same?

Download the prompts for December 21-24 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document. If you want to get a jump on the next set of prompts, you can download the prompts for December 25-28 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

A cream colored card with the December 23 prompt with a green border and a red wax seal. It’s nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

  •  A favorite book

  • Costumes & props, if desired

Activity

This is our third recurring Book Nook, so it should feel familiar. Just like on 12/9 and 12/16, read and act out a favorite book. Make this as elaborate or as basic as you like: the goal is to take the perspective of the characters and to have fun.

December 22

Prompt: December 22

How are you doing today, my friend?

Let’s talk about feelings; we might start a trend.

What is something you find funny or interesting?

What are you most looking forward to today?

Is there anything you’re dreading?

What is your favorite thing about the holidays?

Download the prompts for December 21-24 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 22 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Just yourself and your kiddo, and possibly the perfect hot drink to set a cozy scene.

Activity

Have a conversation with your kiddo about their feelings surrounding the season, the holiday, and everything else. At what is often the busiest point of the season, it’s a great idea to pause and check in.

December 21

Prompt: December 21

It’s the solstice; it’s here!

The darkest night of the year.

Let’s light up the night to spread some good cheer.

 

Work together to create a light display to cheer your neighbors.

Download the prompts for December 21-24 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 21 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 21 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Something to create a light display. You might want to use candles, fairy lights, farolitos, or something else entirely.

Activity

With your kiddo, do something to bring light to the darkness. At our house, we’ll light candles in the windows for the evening. I like the simplicity of this ritual, and the way it makes the house cozier on the darkest night of the year. We used to light candles just inside the house, but by spreading light to the neighborhood, it builds a sense of community.

December 19

Prompt: December 19

We have learned of how scarce clean water can be

And walked by the river, the lake, or the sea,

And now I feel ready to make the next move

To protect or improve

Access to water both far and near.

Let’s donate to groups keeping waterways clear.

Download the prompts for December 17-20 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document. If you want to print the next round of prompts, you can download the sheet for December 21-24 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 19 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 19 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Funds to donate, if you are able.

Activity

Choose an organization working on water preservation (directly or indirectly) that means something to you. I love being able to show my children the water source that we’re protecting, so we love to give to the McKenzie River Trust and Columbia Riverkeeper. If you can’t give anything right now, consider taking a walk with your kiddo along the river again, but this time with a pair of gloves and trash bag, to clean up some garbage. While volunteer opportunities are still somewhat limited because of COVID-19, there are still some, and it could be fun to work together with a group to do some local cleanup.

December 17

Prompt: December 17

The wetlands are home to frogs just like me,

But they’re vanishing quickly, so I have a plea.

Take time today to learn about water,

How it is scarce, and as Earth gets hotter,

Fewer and fewer will have water that’s clean.

Let’s learn how to help; you know I am keen.

Download the prompts for December 17-20 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 17 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 17 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Some information on water scarcity. The World Wildlife Federation has an accessible page on the subject.

Activity

For the next few days, we’re doing activities surrounding water scarcity and preservation. Water scarcity is one of the most visible symptoms of climate change. A lack of access to adequate clean, fresh water is already a major driver of human migration, and will only become more devastating in the years to come. Therefore, doing what we can to conserve water and preserve watersheds is an act of empathy for billions of people worldwide.

Today, we’re just chatting about the subject with our kids in a way that’s accessible to them. You might just read that WWF page together. You might read a book like We Are Water Protectors or The Water Princess. The important part is discussing the issue in a way that resonates with your kiddo.

December 16

Prompt: December 16

Let’s read a favorite book together. Then, let’s put on a play. Can we become the characters from the book?

Which character from the story is most like you? Why?

Do any of the characters remind you of family or friends? How so?

Download the prompts for December 13-16 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document. If you want to get planning with the next set, you can download the prompts for December 17-20 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 16 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a pink and gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 16 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a pink-and-gold-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

  •  A favorite book

  • Costumes & props, if desired

Activity

This is our second recurring Book Nook, so it should feel familiar. Just like on 12/9, read and act out a favorite book. Make this as elaborate or as basic as you like: the goal is to take the perspective of the characters and to have fun.

December 15

Prompt: December 15

This winter and last, many folks have been sick

And staying cheerful has been quite the trick.

It’s not any fun to feel under the weather

Or to worry ‘bout friends, or just wonder whether

People you care about need help from you.

It turns out, good news, here’s what we can do:

Find a group working to help those who are ill,

Then donate a bit to give them a thrill.

Download the prompts for December 13-16 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 15 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 15 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Funds or other items for donation

Activity

Today is a special day for our family: our youngest is finally getting a critical surgery we’ve been waiting on for about a year, but which has been somewhat catastrophically delayed because of the pandemic.

Before this experience I knew, intellectually, that the medical system in the U.S. was broken and that navigating it with your kids was nightmarish. Nevertheless, nothing could have prepared me for what the last few years have been like, with the stress of the pandemic and a three-year-old with significant, time-sensitive medical needs.

Today, I’d love to honor that journey by donating to support children’s health and wellbeing. We’ll be donating to Providence Children’s Health Foundation, but I encourage you to find an organization that speaks to you and your family’s interests.

December 13

Prompt: December 13

By now you know how much I love art.

Let’s make a painting that’s straight from the heart.

Gather some paper and brushes and paint

And let’s make a painting of winter that’s quaint.

 

If you need some ideas, consider the time we spent out in nature. Would you like to paint the way that felt to you?

Download the prompts for December 13-16 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 13 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 13 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Paper, brushes, and paints.

Activity

Invite your kids to paint a winter scene and, if you’d like, do it with them. By making a painting of winter, your kiddos will have to consider how to convey their feelings about the season. It’s a great opportunity for creative introspection and emotional awareness.

December 12

Prompt: December 12

Thank you for taking me on an adventure yesterday!

Now that we’ve had some time to enjoy nature, let’s reminisce. What are the things you enjoyed the most yesterday?

What makes nature wonderful?

What is different right now from the outside world during other seasons?

Download the prompts for December 9-12 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document. You may also want to go ahead and download the prompts for December 13-16. They’re available here as a PDF, or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 12 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 12 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Possibly something to write with and on, but this can easily be a conversation.

Activity

Chat with your kiddo about their adventure outdoors yesterday. While you likely talked about it while exploring, it’s important to bring it up again today. Reminiscing together can help secure the memory, but your child may also notice new things about the experience in the peaceful remembrance. This will also help set them up for tomorrow’s artistic endeavor, as they’ll want to have their perception of winter fresh in their mind.

December 11

Prompt: December 11

When I’m at home, I live outdoors

And I find while I’m here, I miss it.

Don’t get me wrong, you I adore,

But that sadness—I can’t just dismiss it.

Let’s find a time to get outside,

Where the air is fresh and the sky is wide. 

Download the prompts for December 9-12 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  You may also want to go ahead and download the prompts for December 13-16. They’re available here as a PDF, or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 11 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 11 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

 None, really, but of course it depends on where you plan to go! Outdoor clothes, possibly a nature journal, and transportation, depending on your destination.

Activity

Spend some time in nature with your child and your frog. Be sure to ask your kiddo questions as you go. What do they notice about the world around them? What do they like about this adventure? We love to get outside even if the weather is terrible, but when we go for a rainy hike, we’re always sure to bring a thermos of cocoa.

December 10

Prompt: December 10

When I think of winter, I think of deep snow,

the moon’s haloed glow,

and a Christmas light show.

If I painted winter, I’d use white and blue,

And some red and green, too.

It would show you the winter I always knew.

Let’s look at how artists paint their winters. What do they choose to show us?

Download the prompts for December 9-12 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 10 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 10 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

  •  Some artist’s renditions of winter. These can be to your taste, but here are a few suggestions:

  • Claude Monet’s The Magpie. I like the harmony of this painting with Teasdale’s poem.

  • Many of Will Cotton’s paintings are whimsical, candy creations of winter. I particularly love Out of the Woods and Alpine Ruin.

  • This list from the BBC has lots of great options.

Claude Monet’s The Magpie, oil on canvas, 1868

An image of a gingerbread house on mounds of frosting, which resemble snow. The house appears to be perched on the edge of a candy cane cliff.

Will Cotton’s Alpine Ruin, oil on linen, 2008

An image of a pink unicorn. Candy (peppermint ropes and whipped cream) tower in the background, like snowy woods.

Will Cotton’s Out of the Woods, oil on linen, 2020

Activity

Look over the paintings above, or any winter-themed art of your choosing. Ask your kids what they notice. You might want to ask:

  • What colors do you notice the most?

  • Does your eye go to one particular place in the painting? Why?

  • Do you think there’s a most important part of this painting?

  • How do you feel when you look at this painting? Does that change the longer you look at it?

  • Is this how winter looks to you?

  • Close your eyes and describe this painting from memory. Then, open them. What did you remember? What did you forget?

December 9

Prompt: December 9

Let’s read a favorite book together. Then, let’s put on a play. Can we become the characters from the book? 

If you could change one thing about the story, what would you change?

If you could write the next chapter, what would happen?

Download the prompts for December 9-12 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 9 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 9 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with a green border and a copper-colored frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

  •  A favorite book

  • Costumes & props, if desired

Activity

This one is easy, and it’s recurring throughout the month. Every remaining Thursday, we’ll read and act out a favorite book. Make this as elaborate or as basic as you like: the goal is to take the perspective of the characters and to have fun.

December 8

Prompt: December 8

I spent all night thinking over that poem

And the beauty it conveyed.

The way the happy skaters swayed

And the bluejay preened as they gazed at him.

Let’s write a poem of our winter, here

And its beauty, fearless and gay.

Let’s share the story of all our cheer

We could even rhyme along the way!

Download the prompts for December 5-8 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  You can download the next set of prompts, for December 9-12, here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.

An image of the Dec. 8 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 8 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

 Materials

Something to write on (a piece of paper, a tablet, etc.)

Something to write with (a pen, pencil, or tablet, etc.)

Activity

One of my favorite things to do with my kids is write poems with them. Poems are so free-form, that even though my oldest is still learning how to write, she feels confident in her skills.

To start, you might want to reflect on the poem we read yesterday. Ask your kids what they like about the poem. Then, have them start brainstorming what winter experiences they want to capture in their poem.

You might want to let them know that poetry:

  • Doesn’t have to rhyme

  • Can use invented spelling

  • Can be as short or long as they like

  • Can be funny! Or serious! Poetry can be about any emotion at all.

If your kiddo is stuck, you might suggest playing “Exquisite Corpse” (or a simplified version of the game). The game dates back to the Parisian Surrealist Movement, and you probably played a version of it in English class. Each player writes a line, then folds the paper to conceal it, then passes it to the next player. If you’re playing with younger children, you might just go back and forth saying words, while an adult writes them down into the poem. The point here is to get our kids to think creatively and playfully about their emotions, and also about how to communicate those emotions to other people.

December 7

Prompt: December 7

When I want to see the world anew

I read a little poem.

When I want to learn something fine and true

I read a little poem.

When I want to see through the eyes of another

I read a little poem.

Let’s read a poem now to each other,

Let’s read a little poem!

Download the prompts for December 5-8 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 7 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 7 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

A poem to read. While you are welcome to choose any poem, of course, tomorrow’s prompt references “A Winter Bluejay” by Sara Teasdale.

A Winter Bluejay

Sara Teasdale

Crisply the bright snow whispered,
Crunching beneath our feet;
Behind us as we walked along the parkway,
Our shadows danced,
Fantastic shapes in vivid blue.
Across the lake the skaters
Flew to and fro,
With sharp turns weaving
A frail invisible net.
In ecstasy the earth
Drank the silver sunlight;
In ecstasy the skaters
Drank the wine of speed;
In ecstasy we laughed
Drinking the wine of love.
Had not the music of our joy
Sounded its highest note?
But no,
For suddenly, with lifted eyes you said,
“Oh look!”
There, on the black bough of a snow flecked maple,
Fearless and gay as our love,
A bluejay cocked his crest!
Oh who can tell the range of joy
Or set the bounds of beauty?

 This poem appears in the collection A Poem for Every Winter Day, edited by Allie Esiri. The Frog will be giving my kids this book today, and I hope to read a poem from it every morning at breakfast throughout the winter.

Activity

So many things have been said about poetry, but I’ve always thought of it as the most efficient way to slip into someone else’s perspective. William Wordsworth famously described poetry as “the spontaneous overflow of powerful feelings: it takes its origin from emotion recollected in tranquillity.” But if poetry is emotion, it is important to consider whose emotion. Certainly the poet’s, but the reader and poet co-collaborate with every reading and interpretation; once read, it ceases to be just the poet’s “powerful feelings.” Italian poet Salvatore Quasimodo highlighted the way poetry is both intensely personal and, necessarily, broadly evocative. After winning the Nobel prize for literature in 1959, the poet said “Poetry ... is the revelation of a feeling that the poet believes to be interior and personal which the reader recognizes as his own.” For our children, part of building empathy is realizing that other people have a rich interior world, and also realizing that they have one of their own. Over the next few days, we’ll enjoy poetry with our children to build their awareness of emotional expression.

Read Teasdale’s poem with your children. Then, if you like, ask them some simple questions about it. What do you notice about this poem? What did you see while reading this poem? Did it feel like you were seeing through the poet’s eyes? How do you think the poet felt while writing this poem? Have you ever been so overcome with beauty and joy that you wanted to immortalize it like this? When? What’s your favorite word in this poem? Are there any words here you would change?

Tomorrow, we’ll give our kids a chance to write a poem of their own, and these questions can help them feel empowered to attempt poetry themselves.

December 6

Prompt: December 6

While I’ve been away I’ve had letters from friends

And each one has brightened my day.

I wonder if we could grab paper and pens

And send some good cheer on its way.

Let’s make a holiday card for someone we won’t get to see

in person this holiday season!

Download the prompts for December 5-8 here as a PDF or here as a Microsoft Word Document.  

An image of the Dec. 6 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

An image of the Dec. 6 prompt card, printed on cream card stock with an orange border and an orange frog wax seal. The card is nestled in a lit Christmas tree.

Materials

Any art supplies you would like to use to make cards. We’ll use colored card stock, crayons, glue, and some old buttons we have laying around to create Christmas Tree cards like the one pictured here. This year I think we’ll also try making our own envelopes!

A homemade holiday card. A piece of cream cardstock is folded in half, and construction paper and colorful old buttons simulate a decorated Christmas tree.

A homemade holiday card. A piece of cream card stock is folded in half, and construction paper and colorful old buttons simulate a decorated Christmas tree.

Activity

This was one of my absolute favorite activities from last year, and it’s one my kids still talk about regularly. We’ll make cards to send to some friends and family we’ve been missing just to spread some cheer. As we craft, we’ll talk about the people we miss and what we love about them.